Beyond the scandal. Teenagers need to be listened to by adults

Abstract

The transition from nature to culture finds its spark here (Lévi-Strauss, 1947, p. 67) : the renunciation of jouissance corresponds to the fulfillment of desire. The rule of rules, in fact, does not merely prohibit, it circulates. It is positive. Socially absurd, it nevertheless remains a problem: a path toward disorder, a sign of counter-order, an indication of confusion between generations.

The taboo must be met with adult testimony, not a subject or the knowledge of some expert. Accompanying, respecting, and distinguishing fantasies from shared reality is more demanding than scientific proof. One can never say everything there is to say about sex.